如何与室友相处10个小建议
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1. Be clear about your expectations from the beginning
 
Do you know in advance that you hate it when someone hits the snooze button1 fifteen times every morning? That you're a neat freak? That you need ten minutes to yourself before talking to anyone after you wake up? Let your roommate know as soon as you can about your little quirks1 and preferences. It's not fair to expect him or her to pick up on2 them right away, and communicating what you need is one of the best ways to eliminate2 problems before they become problems.
 
2. Address problems when they're little
 
Is your roommate always forgetting her stuff3 for the shower, and taking yours? Are your clothes being bor- rowed faster than you can wash them? Addressing things that bug4 you while they're still little can help your roommate be aware of something she may not otherwise know. And addressing little things is much easier than addressing them after they've become big.
 
3. Respect your roommate's stuff
 
This may seem simple, but it's probably one of the biggest reasons why roommates experience conflict. Don't think he'll mind if you borrow his cleats for a quick soccer game3? For all you know, you just stepped over an uncrossable line. Don't borrow, use, or take anything without getting permission first.
 
4. Be mindful of who you bring into your room – and how often
 
You may love having your study group into your room. But your roommate may not. Be mindful of how often you bring people over. If your roommate studies best in the quiet, and you study best in a group, can you alternate5 who hits4 the library and who gets the room?
 
5. Lock the door and windows
 
This may seem like it has nothing to do with roommate relationships, but how would you feel if your roommate's laptop got stolen during the ten seconds it took you to run down thehall5? Or vice6 versa? Locking your door and windows is a critical part of keeping safe on campus7.
 
6. Be friendly, without expecting to be best friends
 
Don't go into6 your roommate relationship thinking that you are going to be best friends for the time you're at school. It may happen, but expecting it sets both of you up for7 trouble. You should be friendly with your roommate but also make sure you have your own social circles.
 
7. Be open to new things
 
Your roommate may be from someplace you've never heard of. They may have a religion or lifestyle that is completely different from your own. Be open to new ideas and experiences, especially as it relates to what your roommate brings into your life. That's why you went to college in the first place, right?!
 
8. Stay open to change
 
You should expect to learn and grow and change during your time at school. And the same should happen to your roommate, if all goes well. As the semester8 progresses, realize things will change for both of you. Be comfortable addressing things that unexpectedly9 come up, setting10 new rules, and being flexible to your changing environment.
 
9. Address problems when they're big, too
 
You may not have been totally honest8 with tip #2, or you may suddenly find yourself with a roommate who goes wild9 after being shy and quiet the first two months. Either way, if something gets to be a big problem quickly, deal with it as soon as you can.
 
10. If nothing else, follow the golden rule
 
Treat your roommate like you'd like to be treated. No matter what your relationship is at the end of the year, you can take comfort knowing you acted like an adult and treated your roommate with respect.


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1 quirks 45fdbe6cf154fe3b8bcba6cba262afa0     
n.奇事,巧合( quirk的名词复数 );怪癖
参考例句:
  • One of his quirks is that he refuses to travel by train. 他的怪癖之一是不愿乘火车旅行。 来自《简明英汉词典》
  • All men have their own quirks and twists. 人人都有他们自己的怪癖和奇想。 来自《现代英汉综合大词典》
2 eliminate yqSxM     
vt.排除,消除,根除
参考例句:
  • Can we ever eliminate poverty from the world?我们有朝一日能消除世上的贫困吗?
  • You must eliminate an unknown quantity.你必须消去一个未知数。
3 stuff Itsw1     
n.原料,材料,东西;vt.填满;吃饱
参考例句:
  • We could supply you with the stuff in the raw tomorrow.明天我们可以供应你原材料。
  • He is not the stuff.他不是这个材料。
4 bug 5skzf     
n.虫子;故障;窃听器;vt.纠缠;装窃听器
参考例句:
  • There is a bug in the system.系统出了故障。
  • The bird caught a bug on the fly.那鸟在飞行中捉住了一只昆虫。
5 alternate rLWyh     
adj.交替的,间隔的;v.(使)轮流  
参考例句:
  • He and I clean our room on alternate days.我和他隔日轮流打扫我们的房间。
  • That was a week of alternate rain and sunshine.那是晴雨天交替的一周。
6 vice NU0zQ     
n.坏事;恶习;[pl.]台钳,老虎钳;adj.副的
参考例句:
  • He guarded himself against vice.他避免染上坏习惯。
  • They are sunk in the depth of vice.他们堕入了罪恶的深渊。
7 campus iTOyj     
n.大学校园,学校校园;大学 
参考例句:
  • They spoke of the old days on the campus.他们谈起昔日的校园生活。
  • The campus covers an area of twenty square kilometres.这个校园占地二十平方公里。
8 semester XDJzN     
n.一学期,半学年,六个月的时间
参考例句:
  • A student will probably attend four or five courses during each semester.每个学生一学期可能要修四五门课程。
  • I had an especially rough time during my first semester.我第一个学期的日子难受极了。
9 unexpectedly 3fEz5m     
adv.未料到地,意外地;竟;居然;骤然
参考例句:
  • The volcano unexpectedly blew up early in the morning. 火山一早突然爆发了。
  • I had just put the dinner on when Jim walked in unexpectedly. 我刚把晚饭摆上桌,吉姆突然走进来。
10 setting 7i5zmt     
n.背景
参考例句:
  • The play has its setting in Vienna.该剧以维也纳为背景。
  • Where and when a story takes place is called the setting.故事发生的地点和时间称为故事背景。
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