必须亲身经历才能体会的道理 下
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Take Every Chance You Get
 
Life is about taking chances, grabbing1 opportunities and taking risks. Don't be afraid to try something new, move somewhere new, work somewhere new, meet new people and learn something new.
 
Let Go of Expectations
 
Expectations ruin everything and most of the time our expectations are too high for those around us and for ourselves. No one is perfect and nothing is ever going to be perfect. The faster you can learn this and let go of too high or false expectations, the easier life will come to you. Expectations bring heartache and only cause harm. Expect nothing and appreciate everything.
 
Life Is Complex. Try Not to Worry
 
Don't worry because everyone has ups and downs. It's just how life is. Life is extremely messy and complicated2, but don't despair3 because things will work out in the end. Keep living and keep on doing what you enjoy. Don't be too hard on yourself.
 
You Get What You Put In
 
Happiness, love and confidence come from within. Life is what you make of it and what you put into it. You can create whatever life you want, and if you create that life and it doesn't work for you anymore, guess what? You can create a whole new life that does work. You may not have a choice in things that happen to you but you have a choice in how you react to them. Try to stay positive no matter what life throws at you and get through the tough times by talking to friends, family and a counselor4 if you need to.
 
You Will Face Rejection5
 
You will be rejected at some point in your life. Rejection hurts at the very core6 of your being, but try not to take it too personally. Oftentimes, when you're rejected it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with the person rejecting you. Take it in stride7, let it slide off your back and move on. I know this is easier said than done, but it will go a long way in making you feel better and happier.
 
Love More and Keep Your Heart Open
 
Love is all that really matters in the end. Give of yourself more than anything. Try to be patient, empathetic, understanding, caring and gentle with other people. Get to know people better by asking questions and listening attentively8. People usually like to talk about themselves and questions are a great way to get conversations going. Love people for who they are, just as they are, and realize that everyone is a work in progress! Life is a continual9 work in progress. We're all just trying to find our way, and we're all confused and looking for contentment. Life is a journey, and happiness is not a destination to arrive at, but a way of living.
 
Relationships Don't Come Easy
 
Choosing a life partner/spouse is hard. Relationships in general are hard, not just romantic ones but friendships and family relations as well. Stay in touch with people who you really care about and who really care about you. Make an effort to stay an active person in their life if you really care. You will not have as many close friends as you get older and you will probably lose some friends as well. Remember that it is okay, not everyone who comes into your life is meant to stay forever; let them go and cherish10 the people who are still in your life.


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1 grabbing 6631ce3e19c459ec52654b31168f12de     
v.抢先,抢占( grab的现在分词 );(尤指匆忙地)取;攫取;(尤指自私、贪婪地)捞取
参考例句:
  • The plane was grabbing for altitude. 这架飞机在抢占高度。 来自《简明英汉词典》
  • He sprang to his feet, grabbing his keys off the coffee table. 他一跃而起,从茶几上一把抓起自己的钥匙。 来自辞典例句
2 complicated 9vjzzD     
adj.错综复杂的,麻烦的,结构复杂的
参考例句:
  • The poem is so complicated that I cannot make out its meaning.这首诗太复杂,我理解不了它的意思。
  • This is the most complicated case I have ever handled.这是我所处理过的最为复杂的案子。
3 despair rmjzP     
vi.灰心丧气,感到沮丧绝望;n.绝望,沮丧
参考例句:
  • If you are in the depths of despair,you will be extremely unhappy.如果你彻底地失望,你会十分不开心。
  • Don't despair;things will get better soon.不必绝望,事情不久就会好起来。
4 counselor czlxd     
n.顾问,法律顾问
参考例句:
  • The counselor gave us some disinterested advice.顾问给了我们一些无私的忠告。
  • Chinese commercial counselor's office in foreign countries.中国驻国外商务参赞处。
5 rejection FVpxp     
n.拒绝,被拒,抛弃,被弃
参考例句:
  • He decided not to approach her for fear of rejection.他因怕遭拒绝决定不再去找她。
  • The rejection plunged her into the dark depths of despair.遭到拒绝使她陷入了绝望的深渊。
6 core OZyyY     
n.中心;核心;(苹果、梨等果实的)果心
参考例句:
  • We didn't get to the core of the subject.我们没触及问题的核心。
  • The pear is rotten to the core.这梨全烂了。
7 stride 7hKyR     
vi.大踏步走,阔步行进;n.大步,步态
参考例句:
  • In a big stride he came out of the room.他一个箭步出了房间。
  • The boy walked with a confident manly stride.这男孩以自信的男人步伐行走。
8 attentively AyQzjz     
adv.聚精会神地;周到地;谛;凝神
参考例句:
  • She listened attentively while I poured out my problems. 我倾吐心中的烦恼时,她一直在注意听。 来自《简明英汉词典》
  • She listened attentively and set down every word he said. 她专心听着,把他说的话一字不漏地记下来。 来自《简明英汉词典》
9 continual EYezo     
adj.不间断的,不停的;多次重复的,频频的
参考例句:
  • I am tired of this continual rain.不停的下雨使我厌倦。
  • He has continual arguments with his father.他屡次跟他父亲争论。
10 cherish cherish     
vt.抱有,怀有(希望等),爱护,抚育,珍爱
参考例句:
  • I cherish for you the liveliest feeling of affection and gratitude.我对你怀有最强烈的爱和感激之情。
  • We must cherish experience acquired at the cost of blood.我们必须珍惜用鲜血换来的经验。
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