必须亲身经历才能体会的道理 中
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Make Your Health a Priority1, Not an Option
Once you get into your late 20s and early 30s your body is going to start losing metabolism2 and energy. You're going to start hurting and going to bed earlier. Start eating better and exercising. Don't think of it as a choice. Start developing a healthier lifestyle and soon it will become habit. Take care of yourself physically3, mentally and spiritually.
You're Only Young Once
Enjoy being young while you are still young! Enjoy being young as much as possible. Enjoy the metabolism and the fun times. Cross stuff4 off your bucket list while you're young because no one knows how much time you truly have. Don't wait until you're old and can't or may not be able to do the things you really want to experience. Seriously, you may be broke while you're young, but that doesn't matter. You've got time to make money and settle down. Travel, explore and do what your heart desires now. You can still get married, have children and a household and career starting in your 20s if you want, but you should try to balance your life with equal amounts of responsibility and fun. The last thing you want to do is look back on missed chances.
Attitude Determines Your Altitude
Attitude is everything and that's not something they teach you in school. Having a good attitude can make all the difference in your life. It makes life easier and happier when you have a positive outlook5 and are able to keep your attitude light and flexible when dealing6 with other people and with life's challenges.
You're Going to Spend A Lot of Time Figuring Stuff Out
Unless you're one of the lucky few who already knows what their passion is and what you really enjoy, you will be spending a lot of time trying new things and figuring out what you're good at and what you like. Don't be afraid to try new things and fail at them; failing builds character. You have a lot of growing up to do in your 20s, a lot of self-examination and exploration. Use this time wisely to get to know yourself as best as you can–not that you won't change as you continue to get older, but it's definitely7 a time of discovery, getting to know oneself and what you want in this world and what you have to contribute to the world.
How You Treat People Matters
Treating people with respect and decency8 can get you a long way in the world. Remember that "honey attracts more flies than vinegar." Being nice to people really does actually matter to people. You won't get anywhere tearing other people down or blaming others for anything. Take responsibility for yourself, your actions and your feelings.
You Will Not Have Everything Figured Out Anytime Soon
If you don't have everything figured out by the time you're 30, you're not alone. If you're not where you want to be in your life or career, don't sweat it, you still have time. Some people never figure out what they really want to do with their lives, but they get a lot of great experience, learn new things and can transfer9 their skills to many types of jobs. If you know what you want to do in life, start doing it immediately, practice it as much as possible and you will get better at it.
Be Prepared To Deal With Changes in Relationships
Look at your time with exes and be thankful; even though it didn't work out, at least you got to experience it and learn from it. You rolled the dice10 and lost, but at least you took a chance! Don't think that just because something wasn't meant to be for your entire life doesn't mean it didn't add value and was right where you needed to be at the time.
In your 20s, especially if you have a family, it gets harder and harder to spend time with friends because of so many different time demands. You will be pulled in every direction and it's up to you to decide what your priorities11 are. Having a couple of close friends you can rely on can make a difference in your life. As they say "shared joy is doubled, shared sorrow is halved12."


1 priority qQ1xB     
  • The development of the national economy is a top priority.发展国民经济是应予以最优先考虑的事。
  • Things should be taken up in order of priority.办事应有个先后次序。
2 metabolism 171zC     
  • After years of dieting,Carol's metabolism was completely out of whack.经过数年的节食,卡罗尔的新陈代谢完全紊乱了。
  • All living matter undergoes a process of metabolism.生物都有新陈代谢。
3 physically iNix5     
  • He was out of sorts physically,as well as disordered mentally.他浑身不舒服,心绪也很乱。
  • Every time I think about it I feel physically sick.一想起那件事我就感到极恶心。
4 stuff Itsw1     
  • We could supply you with the stuff in the raw tomorrow.明天我们可以供应你原材料。
  • He is not the stuff.他不是这个材料。
5 outlook RJQxH     
  • The outlook for the economy is bright.经济前景光明。
  • Her outlook gradually widens.她的眼光渐渐开阔了。
6 dealing NvjzWP     
  • This store has an excellent reputation for fair dealing.该商店因买卖公道而享有极高的声誉。
  • His fair dealing earned our confidence.他的诚实的行为获得我们的信任。
7 definitely RuJzx0     
  • The team will definitely lose if he doesn't play.如果他不参加比赛,这个队肯定会输。
  • I shall definitely be home before six o'clock.6点以前,我一定回家。
8 decency Jxzxs     
  • His sense of decency and fair play made him refuse the offer.他的正直感和公平竞争意识使他拒绝了这一提议。
  • Your behaviour is an affront to public decency.你的行为有伤风化。
9 transfer SnxwK     
n. 迁移, 移动, 换车; v. 转移, 调转, 调任
  • He has been kicking against this transfer for weeks. 几周以来他一直反对这次调动。
  • I intend to transfer the property to my son. 我想把这笔财产转给我儿子。
10 dice iuyzh8     
  • They were playing dice.他们在玩掷骰子游戏。
  • A dice is a cube.骰子是立方体。
11 priorities a226322a0b5af32a831b4d1dfe64595c     
n.先( priority的名词复数 );优先;优先权;优先考虑的事
  • The document provided a revealing insight into the government's priorities. 这份文件使人看出政府的轻重缓急是怎样安排的。
  • We must work together to fund only our most important priorities. 我们必须共同努力,只为最重要的项目提供资金。 来自英汉非文学 - 政府文件
12 halved e23e4ddc1c29e5a63536d2c9bb621fbc     
v.把…分成两半( halve的过去式和过去分词 );把…减半;对分;平摊
  • The shares have halved in value . 股价已经跌了一半。
  • Overall operating profits halved to $24 million. 总的营业利润减少了一半,降至2,400 万元。 来自《简明英汉词典》
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