I just met this guy, he said he really likes me and wants to date me. I told him I don't have any special feeling for him yet, and it is too fast.

我只是和他刚认识，他就说他真的很喜欢我，想和我交往。我说我对他并没有什么特殊的感觉，而且这进展太快了。

 

He told me it was okay, but never contacted me again. What does this mean?

他告诉我这没什么，但是他再也没有联系过我。他什么意思？

 

Stop looking at men as just some male creature and start respecting them as human beings. To be honest, this guy is really a gentleman. He didn't bother you anymore after you rejected him. If you're interested in him, ask him out confidently. There's zero shame in that. If you believe that he should keep trying despite your arrogant¹ refusals then I'm sorry to say that you're not eligible² for him. And I'm even more sorry to say that he must have found some true lady by this time who treats him like a king.

 

And get more humiliated³ by you. Great.

 

A person can be either selfish or dumb. But when both those attributes are seen in one person I don't know what to say.

 

You expressed your feelings of not loving him. He respected that and never contacted you again.That's it.

 

Stop expecting guys to run behind you after you have rejected them.

 

It means that he respects you. You told him that you're not interested in him and he took you at your word, which he should. If you've changed your mind and want to go out with him, then invite him out on a date.

 

It means he respected your wishes not to bother you. If you want him to pay attention, tell him. Don't make him guess. That's very unfair.

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