Two women were chating in a room,

One asked, "How is everthing going with your son?"

"Oh,don't even mention it,  what a huge misfortune¹!!" The woman sighed:

"He is poor enough, and marry a extraordinary lazy daughter-in-law. She doesn’t cook, not clean the room, not look after the children except sleep all the time. It was my son who bring breakfast to her bed.

"How about your dauther?"

"She might be lucky." Woman smiled, "He married a good husband who doesn’t  allow him to do  the housework, and handle everything all alone. The housework include cooking, washing, cleaning and looking after the children. What’s more, he brought the breakfast to my daughter everyday.

Consider the same situation, but when we look at it from my perspective², it will have a different mentality³（心态，智力） . Stand to look at other people's position, or at each other's point of view to think about a lot of things, you can have a greater tolerance⁴ and more love.