很多已婚人士说，结婚以后少了很多自由，要去哪里都要向另一半汇报，人家不同意还不能去。估计这是一个世界性的问题吧。国外很早就有专门形容这种情况的词，叫kitchen pass（厨房通行证）。别想错了，不是说家里进厨房还要通行证，而是你想出去的话，得先得到在厨房忙活的那个人的同意才行。

Kitchen pass refers to permission from one's spouse¹ to attend an event or go on an outing.

Kitchen pass指夫妻中的一方对另一方出席活动或者出游的许可。

The Kitchen Pass name came from the idea that each member of the all-male club needed permission from his wife to go race-car driving, off-road motorcycling², fishing and a rodeo, as well as diving.

Kitchen pass这个名字的最初由来是因为全男性俱乐部的成员们在出去参加赛车、摩托车越野、钓鱼、斗牛以及跳水等活动前先要得到他们妻子的允许。

For example:

I plan to go on a fishing trip with some of my friends next week, but I have to get the kitchen pass from my wife.

我打算下周跟我一些朋友去钓鱼，但我必须先得到我太太的允许。