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Couples who get to know each other before being intimate have a better chance of having a lasting1 relationship, but in some cases even a casual fling can lead to true love, according to a new research. 一项最新调查表明,在确定亲密关系之前彼此互相了解的情侣感情更有可能长久,但在某些情况下,一夜情也能带来真爱。 Most of the 56 percent of 642 adults questioned in the study who said they had waited until they got serious before they had sex reported having a high quality relationship. The number was higher than for the 27 percent of people who had sex while dating casually2 and the 17 percent who were intimate(亲密的) while in a non-romantic relationship. "There's something about the characteristics of people who wait before sex that is linked to higher-quality relationships," said sociology(社会学) professor Anthony Paik of the University of Iowa. Paik, who reported the findings in the journal Social Science Research, said the research suggests that the courtship(求爱,求婚) process acts as a screening mechanism3. "The debate is 'why can't we have sex now?' The expectation is that sex should occur very quickly. But doing so, you're losing out on(输掉,错过) some information that might be useful," he explained in an interview. It's almost an economic equation(方程式,等式) , he added. "On average, the more costly4 the process leading into the relationship, the more likely it is to work. That's what the data would suggest." But Paik said the findings did not show that an early sexual relationship had a direct negative impact on relationships. When he filtered out(过滤掉,不予注意) people who said they had frequent non-romantic or casual dating sexual relationships he found that the gap in relationship quality between serious and nonserious contexts of sexual activity disappeared. "It means it's possible for two strangers to lock eyes in a bar, and go home together, and actually end up in a long-term relationship," Paik said. 点击收听单词发音
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