In love and marriage Gemini men have the contrast of mild affections（喜爱，感情） and sensual passions. The two qualities, within this sign, have little in common. As a lover, the native is arch, flirtatious¹（轻浮的） , teasing and boyish. He is seldom vitally interested, and even when he is attracted, another personality can quickly charm him.

He is somewhat more satisfactory as a husband. Home ties do mean something to him, especially if he marries an intellectual companion. If however his wife is of the nagging²（唠叨的，挑剔的） , demanding, possessive type, the Gemini husband will not be able to endure it. He is temperamentally unfit to endure constant pressure. When Gemini men have over-bearing wives, they often leave home. When they do not take such strong measures, they become that sad object, a hen-pecked husband.

Gemini women are exceedingly（非常，极其） refined. They have a rare, unapproachable delicacy³ that is very attractive to wealthy men, who wish to have wives who suggest class and appear to be well bred. The disposition⁴ is sunny, the mind, active and agile⁵（敏捷的） , and the manner in society poised⁶ and charming. In private domestic life it is often a surprise to find so much animal passion in these fragile , bird-like women.