这年头谈恋爱要当心被骗财骗色，也要当心被“当猪耍”。这是一种玩弄感情的残忍手段，一旦落入圈套，你可能又破财又失身，到头来还被对方嘲笑羞辱一番。

 

Pigging is a cruel new dating trend that borders on emotional abuse. Men deliberately¹ target women they find unattractive, purely² to sleep with them and laugh about it afterwards, or in some cases, continue to humiliate³ them for several months before dramatically rejecting them.

“涮猪”是一种玩弄感情的残忍的约会新潮流。男性会故意把目标对准那些其貌不扬的女人，只是为了和她们上床，事后当成笑话，或者用戏剧性的方式将对方甩掉后，连续数月用这件事羞辱她们。

 

The awful phenomenon seems to have been around since 2014, when Big Brother contestant⁴ Josie Cunningham tried to launch a dating site called 'Pull the Pig', aimed at 'average-looking women'.

这种可怕现象的源头应该要追溯到2014年，当时真人秀节目《老大哥》的参赛者乔西•坎宁汉姆试图创立一个名为“拉猪”的约会网站，目标是“长相普通的女人”。

 

A particularly appalling⁵ example is 'chubby⁶ chasing' - where men seek larger women 'as a laugh' to impress/shock/win a bet. It is heartless, sickening and very cruel.

一个尤为骇人的例子是“追肥婆”，男人会以玩笑的心态去追求那些肥胖的女人，目的是让众人惊愕或打赌获胜。这种做法残忍无情，令人作呕。

 

Example:

 

The woman flew out to see him in Amsterdam, after weeks of messaging, only to be stood up in the airport with nothing but a text saying 'you were pigged, it was all a joke.'

在互相发信息长达数周后，这个女人飞到阿姆斯特丹去见他，结果却被晾在机场，只得到一条短信：“你被当猪耍了，这一切都是玩笑。”

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