tips for improving your interpersonal relationships

Conswello: It's a delight to meet you, Bob Eubanks, it really is.

康丝韦洛:鲍伯·尤班克斯,很高兴见到你,真的。

Eubanks: Thank you very much. You do a great job on this show.

尤班克斯:谢谢。你主持这个节目十分出色。

Conswello: Well,thank you very much and you're using your people skills already . I'm intrigued¹ by how you keep reinventing yourself. How do you do it?

康丝韦洛:哦,非常感谢,你开始使用人际技巧啦!你能不断地为自己增值,对此我非常感兴趣,你是怎么做到的??

Eubanks:Well,you know, I just think what a person has to do is take their strengths, and I know that no one's gonna hire me to a do a game show again so, because they go for the younger guy and such so I got, I sat down, I said, you know, "What should I do?" And I've learned so much about people, and I decided² to go out and speak to corporate³ America What I'm doing is I'm showing corporate America how to maintain a balance in their people skills to high technology. I mean, we're losing our people skills because of the wonderful technology is there. And so I go out and I teach them how to maintain their people skills; how to get the most from people.

尤班克斯:你知道,我只是认为每个人都应该发挥他们自己的长处,同时,我也知道不会再有人找我主持游戏节目了,因为他们要找年轻人来，所以我坐下来问自己：“我应该怎么做呢？”我对人性有一定的了解，因此我决定到美国各家公司去，向他们展示怎样在人际技巧与高科技间取得平衡。我是说，科技的日新月异会使人们逐渐丧失交往技巧。所以我到各个公司讲解怎么保持自己的人际关系，怎么人尽其才。

Conswello: So how do you do that?

康丝韦洛:那么怎么做呢？

Eubanks: Ah, you show interest in them. Ah, when I was doing Newlywed Game, the couples were very frightened and very scared and they would sit there like this. The moment I would say, "How're you doing? How's your family? How's your dog? How's this?" The moment that you would see their body language change. You would see everything about them change. So, if we can show interest in other people and generally, generally care about other people, then it is amazing. People will tell you things they wouldn't tell the Grand Jury⁴.That's what they did for me on the Newlywed Game anyway.

尤班克斯:要关心他人。有些夫妇在亮相由我主持的"新婚游戏"节目的时候,他们很紧张,很害怕,坐得僵直。当我问他们:"你们好吗?家人怎么样?你们的狗好吗?这个好吗?"你可以看到他们的身体语言立刻改变了。你可以看到他们的全部状态都改变了。所以说,如果我们能做到关注别人,关心别人,效果是很神奇的。人们会把没告诉大陪审团的心里话都向你倾诉,至少他们在我的"新婚游戏"节目里是这么做的。