英语口语 第一次约会时的聊天话题
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Breaking the Ice.
Ask how they are doing.
How was your day?
What did you do before coming here?
 
Paying a compliment1 will help put your date in a good mood.
I like your shirt, where'd you get it?
 
Family and friends.
Ask your date about their family.
Do you have any siblings2?
What was it like growing up in your family?
Are you close to your family?
 
Ask your date about their friends.
Tell me about your best friend.
What do you usually do with your friends?
 
Ask them about their influences.
Who has been the biggest influence on your life?
 
Food and drinks.
If you are at a restaurant, this is an appropriate time to bring this topic up.
What is your favorite food/drink?
Is there anything that you won't eat?
Do you like to cook?
 
Hobbies and interests.
Ask your date about what they enjoy doing in their free time or what they're passionate3 about.
What do you like to do outside of work/school?
Do you play any sports?
What do you usually do on a typical weekend?
What things are you really passionate about?
 
Ask follow up questions on this area, since they enjoy their interests and should also enjoy talking about them.
 
Entertainment: Movies, TV, Music, and Books.
What was the last movie that you saw?
What type of music do you like to listen to?
Who is your favorite artist?
What do you usually watch on TV?
What is your favorite book?
Career and school.
Ask about what they think about school or their career.
Do you like your job/school?
 
Ask about what future school/career aspirations4 they have.
Where do you hope to see yourself in 3-5 years?
 
Current events.
Before going out on your first date, read up on the news, information on the local community, celebrity5 gossip6, sports...
(Try to avoid potentially contentious7 topics such as politics and religion)
 
Vacation.
Where did you go on your most recent vacation?
What did you do there?
Do you have any future travel plans?
How often do you travel?
If you could travel to anywhere in the world right now, where would you go?
 
The Past
Reminiscing about the past can be fun and/or nostalgic.
What were you like as a kid?
How have you changed since you were a child?
What is the oddest job you ever had?
Tell me about the first time you broke the law/got in trouble?
 
Fun Questions
Consider asking some fun questions, such as:
What do people say your best quality is?
If you were granted three wishes, but couldn't use the wishes to wish for money or material goods, what would wish for?
What would you do if you were in a zombie apocalypse?
What would you be doing right now if you weren't here?
What do you hate most about first dates?
What was the last thing to really make you laugh?


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1 compliment BpDzx     
n.[pl.]问候,致意;n./v. 称赞,恭维
参考例句:
  • The manager paid her a compliment on her work.经理赞扬了她的工作。
  • Your presence is a great compliment.承蒙光临,不胜荣幸。
2 siblings 709961e45d6808c7c9131573b3a8874b     
n.兄弟,姐妹( sibling的名词复数 )
参考例句:
  • A triplet sleeps amongst its two siblings. 一个三胞胎睡在其两个同胞之间。 来自《简明英汉词典》
  • She has no way of tracking the donor or her half-siblings down. 她没办法找到那个捐精者或她的兄弟姐妹。 来自时文部分
3 passionate rLDxd     
adj.热情的,热烈的,激昂的,易动情的,易怒的,性情暴躁的
参考例句:
  • He is said to be the most passionate man.据说他是最有激情的人。
  • He is very passionate about the project.他对那个项目非常热心。
4 aspirations a60ebedc36cdd304870aeab399069f9e     
强烈的愿望( aspiration的名词复数 ); 志向; 发送气音; 发 h 音
参考例句:
  • I didn't realize you had political aspirations. 我没有意识到你有政治上的抱负。
  • The new treaty embodies the aspirations of most nonaligned countries. 新条约体现了大多数不结盟国家的愿望。
5 celebrity xcRyQ     
n.名人,名流;著名,名声,名望
参考例句:
  • Tom found himself something of a celebrity. 汤姆意识到自己已小有名气了。
  • He haunted famous men, hoping to get celebrity for himself. 他常和名人在一起, 希望借此使自己获得名气。
6 gossip AeEzc     
n.流言蜚语,爱说长道短的人;vi.传播流言
参考例句:
  • She broadcast the gossip all over the town.她将这个流言传遍全镇。
  • They spread a lot of tacky gossip about his love life.关于他的爱情生活,他们散播了许多不堪的闲言闲语。
7 contentious fa9yk     
adj.好辩的,善争吵的
参考例句:
  • She was really not of the contentious fighting sort.她委实不是好吵好闹的人。
  • Since then they have tended to steer clear of contentious issues.从那时起,他们总想方设法避开有争议的问题。
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