想更好地了解别人 让他们发笑
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A great way to get to know someone better is to say something that makes them laugh. 

想要更好地了解别人,一个好办法就是说些能让他们发笑的事。
 
Sharing a few good giggles1 and chuckles2 makes people more willing to tell others something personal about themselves, without even necessarily being aware that they are doing so, suggests new research. 
 
Alan Gray of University College London discovered the tidbit in a new study recently published in the journal Human Nature. 
 
According to Gray, the act of verbally opening up to someone is a crucial building block that helps to form new relationships and intensify3 social bonds. 
 
Such self-disclosure can be of a highly sensitive nature -- like sharing one's religious convictions or personal fears -- or a superficial tidbit such as one's favorite type of food.
 
To investigate the role and influence of laughter in this disclosure process, Gray and his colleagues gathered 112 students from Oxford4 University in England, into groups of four. 
 
The students did not know one another. The groups watched a 10-minute video together, without chatting to one another. 
 
The videos differed in the amount of laughter they invoked5, and the amount of positive feelings or emotions they elicited6
 
One featured a stand-up comedy routine by Michael McIntyre, another a straightforward7 golf instruction video, and the third a pleasant nature excerpt8 from the "Jungles" episode of the BBC's Planet Earth series. 
 
The levels of laughter and the participants' emotional state after watching the video was then measured. Each group member also had to write a message to another participant to help them get to know each other better. 
 
The participants who had a good laugh together shared significantly more intimate information than the groups who did not watch the comedy routine. 
 
Gray suggests this is not merely because it is a positive experience, but because of the physiology9 behind a good laugh. It actually triggers the release of the so-called "happy hormone10" endorphin. 
 
The findings support the idea that laughter encourages people to make more intimate disclosures to strangers. Furthermore, researchers discovered the sharing of the information occurred so spontaneously, the person who disclosed information was seldom aware that he or she had done so. 
 
It was only the listener who realized that it had happened.


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1 giggles 0aa08b5c91758a166d13e7cd3f455951     
n.咯咯的笑( giggle的名词复数 );傻笑;玩笑;the giggles 止不住的格格笑v.咯咯地笑( giggle的第三人称单数 )
参考例句:
  • Her nervous giggles annoyed me. 她神经质的傻笑把我惹火了。 来自《简明英汉词典》
  • I had to rush to the loo to avoid an attack of hysterical giggles. 我不得不冲向卫生间,以免遭到别人的疯狂嘲笑。 来自辞典例句
2 chuckles dbb3c2dbccec4daa8f44238e4cffd25c     
轻声地笑( chuckle的名词复数 )
参考例句:
  • Father always chuckles when he reads the funny papers. 父亲在读幽默报纸时总是低声发笑。
  • [Chuckles] You thought he was being poisoned by hemlock? 你觉得他中的会是芹叶钩吻毒吗?
3 intensify S5Pxe     
vt.加强;变强;加剧
参考例句:
  • We must intensify our educational work among our own troops.我们必须加强自己部队的教育工作。
  • They were ordered to intensify their patrols to protect our air space.他们奉命加强巡逻,保卫我国的领空。
4 Oxford Wmmz0a     
n.牛津(英国城市)
参考例句:
  • At present he has become a Professor of Chemistry at Oxford.他现在已是牛津大学的化学教授了。
  • This is where the road to Oxford joins the road to London.这是去牛津的路与去伦敦的路的汇合处。
5 invoked fabb19b279de1e206fa6d493923723ba     
v.援引( invoke的过去式和过去分词 );行使(权利等);祈求救助;恳求
参考例句:
  • It is unlikely that libel laws will be invoked. 不大可能诉诸诽谤法。
  • She had invoked the law in her own defence. 她援引法律为自己辩护。 来自《简明英汉词典》
6 elicited 65993d006d16046aa01b07b96e6edfc2     
引出,探出( elicit的过去式和过去分词 )
参考例句:
  • Threats to reinstate the tax elicited jeer from the Opposition. 恢复此项征税的威胁引起了反对党的嘲笑。
  • The comedian's joke elicited applause and laughter from the audience. 那位滑稽演员的笑话博得观众的掌声和笑声。
7 straightforward fFfyA     
adj.正直的,坦率的;易懂的,简单的
参考例句:
  • A straightforward talk is better than a flowery speech.巧言不如直说。
  • I must insist on your giving me a straightforward answer.我一定要你给我一个直截了当的回答。
8 excerpt hzVyv     
n.摘录,选录,节录
参考例句:
  • This is an excerpt from a novel.这是一部小说的摘录。
  • Can you excerpt something from the newspaper? 你能从报纸上选录些东西吗?
9 physiology uAfyL     
n.生理学,生理机能
参考例句:
  • He bought a book about physiology.他买了一本生理学方面的书。
  • He was awarded the Nobel Prize for achievements in physiology.他因生理学方面的建树而被授予诺贝尔奖。
10 hormone uyky3     
n.荷尔蒙,激素,内分泌
参考例句:
  • Hormone implants are used as growth boosters.激素植入物被用作生长辅助剂。
  • This hormone interacts closely with other hormones in the body.这种荷尔蒙与体內其他荷尔蒙紧密地相互作用。
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