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Scientists have found that the best way to win over future in-laws is to take an assertive1 approach and directly persuade them you will make your intended spouse2 happy.
如今科学家发现,赢得未来岳母或婆婆信任的最佳方式是,表现出自信,直接说服他们,你会让你的意中人过得幸福。
It may seem counter-intuitive, but this tactic3 - dubbed4 the 'I am right for your child' approach - helped win over doubting fathers and mothers, a study found.
The worst strategy was to avoid dealing5 with the in-laws yourself and instead to ask your sweetheart to lobby on your behalf.
The researchers dubbed this tactic the 'tell them I'm good' method.
And despite the traditional view of the judgmental mother-in-law, the study found that it may actually be easier to win over mothers than fathers.
In his research paper, Professor Menelaos Apostolou said that children frequently choose mates who do not appeal to their parents.
For instance, they may fall for individuals who are physically6 attractive, while their parents are more concerned with social standing7 and family background.
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